We miss some of our family friends. They occupy both sides of the political aisle. But they seem to have disappeared in the political maelstrom of the day. With the midterm elections over, we hoped they’d come back, despite what we sensed as differing political views with us. You see, we don’t share or appreciate the vicious zombie-esque hatred that plaques our past and current presidents and their administrations.
We recall more civil times, when people didn’t talk openly about politics or religion. Those were personal matters. Apparently, this etiquette has been pushed aside. Today’s norm is to audaciously rant political opinions publicly. It permeates lifestyles, spills onto Facebook pages and becomes the mantra of one’s existence. The media stir this acidic pot on all its channels. It reminds us of pre-Civil War tensions.
We have our own political druthers and take pride in calmly listening and understanding all points of view. But it’s agony to endure incessant and visceral political ranting. We usually share common ground on issues, but there’s no reason for rabidness. Accordingly, a mutual distancing of sorts has evolved. Now we wonder if it’s safe to tiptoe to a lunch or a movie outing with our estranged comrades. Aren’t there endless other topics friends can talk about besides politics?
My doctor voiced concern over a recent political editorial that highlighted “thuggish tactics” of the media and the implications for violence and gun ownership. Although one could dismiss the piece’s subject, a prominent Fox News host, as routine showmanship, it does spotlight an unprecedented level of political rancor in this country. We mutually agreed that there’s a nationwide need for intelligent and civil political discourse.
Politics and pregnancies are alike: Every one’s different. But that’s no excuse for dismissing the golden rule. Let’s be civil and courteous, and intelligently discuss our differences, if we have to discuss them at all. After all, friendships should transcend politics. We want our friends back! And we will try.
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